My band played "The Struggle" tonight with the usual zest. I made it through the whole song without breaking down at some point, which happens especially when we perform it after a recent teen suicide. It had been relatively calm for the past week or so. I said to one of my best friends, biggest fans, and occasional reader of the blog that it has been quite for a week or so, and that had me cautiously concerned. Then, I return home from another triumphant show only to get the news.
Friday, February 11th, 15-yer-old Drew Ferraro succumbed to bullycide. According to one of Drew's friends, "he was a funny, clever kid who played football and loved heavy metal music and gigs". Said another friend, "he was definitely bullied and he didn't want to go to school".
The sad irony is that his suicide came mere hours before the release of the very powerful song and video, "It Does Get Better", done by some of the best lesbian talent that the U.K. has to offer. Seeing that video, hearing that song, albeit not heavy metal, could've very well saved Drew's life. We'll never know.
It's imperative that everyone has resources readily available in the event that you're faced, eye-to-eye, with a potentially dangerous situation. Intervention works wonders, and it saves lives.
Wipeout Homophobia on facebook has a wonderful Suicide Support page
Suicide Prevention Lifeline
1-800-273-TALK (8255)
Knowing the signs of depression early on can be a very useful tool.
To the traumatized schoolmates and friends of Drew's who witnessed this event, please seek help. Sorting through this will be extremely difficult on your own. To the family of this young man, we wish you our heartfelt condolences. May you rest in Paradise, Drew Ferraro.
