I read yet another heartbreaking article about Phillip Parker and the abuse he endured. I cried. It went as far as the church, a pastor, telling him to pray the demons out of him so that he could be straight. Yes. In Tennessee, being gay is demonic. How many more lives will be lost to this sickness that's being passed off as Tennessee law? How many more LGBT teens will be cornered into suicide as the bigoted, myopic lawmakers continue to endorse and pass legislation that sanctions their abuse, prevents teachers to intervene in the abuse, and completely demonize their existence?
There are petitions already in place to force their hands. There is power in numbers. Here are three petitions that NEED to be signed and then massively circulated. There needs to be an overwhelming number of names on these petitions so that we can show them that we will no longer tolerate their intolerance. Reversing, or stopping, these bills will work towards providing protection for the LGBT youth of Tennessee as well as stripping away the power to freely discriminate against the LGBT community, in general.
This petition is to force the Tennessee lawmakers to eliminate the language in the anti-bullying bill that would allow for the bullying of LGBT citizens, teens in particular, as long as it's done for religious, philosophical, or political beliefs. This is a very crucial petition. Sign and share. And, share.
This petition strips away the insanely myopic and bigoted "Don't Say Gay" bill. Without that bill in place, Phillip Parker may still be alive today. The teachers who wanted to help would've been able to do so without breaking the law. Understand: it is illegal for teachers to intervene if an LGBT teen is being abused; it's illegal for counselors to counsel them! Sign and share. And, share. And, encourage others to share.
This petition is to help protect other LGBT teens in Cheatham County, where Jacob Rogers committed suicide in December. The rules MUST be changed; the laws MUST be reversed. There has to be stronger policies in place to protect the LGBT teens going to school in Tennessee. And, it's up to all of us, concerned citizens, to push for change. The lawmakers there have already shown that they'd rather see them kill themselves off. Zero tolerance!
Welcome to my blog. I will be dealing with issues surrounding teen suicides, in particular gay teen suicide, sharing stories, voicing my opinions, gathering and sharing information, and hopefully saving some lives. Teen suicide, regardless of their orientation, is a great tragedy. Please join me in my attempt to make a difference.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Phillip Parker and the Tennessee Legislation
The more I read about Phillip Parker, the 14-year-old LGBT youth who commited suicide in Tennessee Friday, the angrier I get. According to several different stories, the bullying had been going on for a long period of time. His family was overwhelmed with information about the verbal, emotional, and physical abuse he endured over the weekend when it was, sadly, too late. However, the report is that several of his friends did, in fact, go to teachers at Gordonsville High School to tell what was happening to him, and no one did anything. No interventions. No calls to the family. Nothing. No one did anything!!!! Heads need to roll. Teachers, the principle, the whole school system needs to be held accountable. This is criminal neglect if nothing else. The ones responsible for the abuse also need to be sought out and punished severely. There are people there who know exactly who's responsible for it. They have already gone forward with it to the school staff. They need to go public with it, as in to the police. Of course, none of it will help the Parker family or Phillips friends at this point. But, it could go a long way to preventing another family in Tennessee from having to go through this.
Or, will it?
It seems that Tennessee, and more specifically it's legislatures, have a problem with the LGBT community. Tennessee has a "Don't Say Gay" statute in place that prohibits teachers, basically, from acknowledging that gays and lesbians even exist. Does that mean, then, that they can't intervene if a LGBT student is being bullied, like Phillip was. Like Jacob Rogers was? Do they, by law, have to pretend that it's not happening, look the other way when it involves an LGBT student?
In Tennessee, same-sex marriages are illegal.
In Tennessee, LGBT people are not protected from housing and employment discrimination.
In Tennessee, they are trying to pass that bill where bullying against members of the LGBT community will be sanctioned as long as it's done for political, philosophical, or religious beliefs. That's a free pass to emotionally, psychologically, and physically abuse LGBT teens! All they have to do is claim it was done because of their beliefs, and they get a get-out-of-jail-free card.
There needs to be outrage. There needs to be petition after petition after petition. Concerned parents need to be voicing their concerns. Loudly! It is mind-boggling that the citizens of Tennessee are allowing this to happen in their state.
Tennessee is apparently the nation's hotbed for homophobia. Comedian Tracy Morgan went on a homophobic rant at a Nashville comedy club, going as far as to say that he'd stab his son to death if said son was to come out as gay. The significance of this is that it was met with a "thunderous applause". He said he'd kill his son if he turned out gay, and people applauded!? How is this being allowed to happen in this country in 2012!?
Meanwhile, family and friends of Phillip Parker are searching for answers. And, justice. Unfortunately, they won't find much justice in a state that passed a law that forbids teachers to even say the word "gay" in their classes. They won't find justice in a state that, just recently!, made it ok to discriminate against LGBT people in the housing and job markets. They won't find justice in a state that wants to sanction the bullying of LGBT teens. Is there any wonder why teens like Phillip, and Jacob, felt such a sense of hopelessness that they ended their lives?
There's a girl named Alissa. She was Phillip's best friend..."like brother and sister". Like his family, she's in an awful lot of pain right now. Another friend started a facebook page to honor the memory of Phillip. Alissa has made painful posts there. Please go and offer her words of encouragement. She, along with the Parker family, needs to be surrounded by love right now. Do it for Phillip.
Or, will it?
It seems that Tennessee, and more specifically it's legislatures, have a problem with the LGBT community. Tennessee has a "Don't Say Gay" statute in place that prohibits teachers, basically, from acknowledging that gays and lesbians even exist. Does that mean, then, that they can't intervene if a LGBT student is being bullied, like Phillip was. Like Jacob Rogers was? Do they, by law, have to pretend that it's not happening, look the other way when it involves an LGBT student?
In Tennessee, same-sex marriages are illegal.
In Tennessee, LGBT people are not protected from housing and employment discrimination.
In Tennessee, they are trying to pass that bill where bullying against members of the LGBT community will be sanctioned as long as it's done for political, philosophical, or religious beliefs. That's a free pass to emotionally, psychologically, and physically abuse LGBT teens! All they have to do is claim it was done because of their beliefs, and they get a get-out-of-jail-free card.
There needs to be outrage. There needs to be petition after petition after petition. Concerned parents need to be voicing their concerns. Loudly! It is mind-boggling that the citizens of Tennessee are allowing this to happen in their state.
Tennessee is apparently the nation's hotbed for homophobia. Comedian Tracy Morgan went on a homophobic rant at a Nashville comedy club, going as far as to say that he'd stab his son to death if said son was to come out as gay. The significance of this is that it was met with a "thunderous applause". He said he'd kill his son if he turned out gay, and people applauded!? How is this being allowed to happen in this country in 2012!?
Meanwhile, family and friends of Phillip Parker are searching for answers. And, justice. Unfortunately, they won't find much justice in a state that passed a law that forbids teachers to even say the word "gay" in their classes. They won't find justice in a state that, just recently!, made it ok to discriminate against LGBT people in the housing and job markets. They won't find justice in a state that wants to sanction the bullying of LGBT teens. Is there any wonder why teens like Phillip, and Jacob, felt such a sense of hopelessness that they ended their lives?
There's a girl named Alissa. She was Phillip's best friend..."like brother and sister". Like his family, she's in an awful lot of pain right now. Another friend started a facebook page to honor the memory of Phillip. Alissa has made painful posts there. Please go and offer her words of encouragement. She, along with the Parker family, needs to be surrounded by love right now. Do it for Phillip.
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